*I* didn't really know there was a problem with me living at home until a few months ago. Dad's been kind of weird since early fall. I think (he thinks) he's having money problems (he won't talk about it, but things are almost certainly not as dire as he seems to think, because they never are, and also because property values in Louisiana are going up, not down, and he owns quite a bit of property). He reacts very badly to the family (particularly me) when he is under stress.